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Make Yourself Obsolete
We all want to feel important and needed, but are we really?
For every profession I look at, I find myself wondering how necessary it really is.
Many of us are not truly working from the deepest, most serious part of our hearts.
Instead, we see it as just a job, just a way to make some money, just a temporary station on the way to something better.
Ask yourself, when something goes wrong with your work, do you care about this deeply? And if you do, is it because you truly care, or just because you worry that others will think less of you? Be honest and sincere here with your thoughts. I am asking you to reflect on these questions, not to feel the need to get defensive.
A few months ago, I spoke with someone in the Education field interested in developing a better curriculum for her students. I told her that she would succeed when the student no longer needed the teacher.
I felt that this was not what she was expecting to hear.
I advised her to make her job unnecessary.
Why would I do that?
I’m not sure it’s a success when students graduate to need another teacher, and another, and another. I’ve often heard that students decided to pursue the next level, whether it’s to a bachelor’s degree, master’s, or even a Ph.D. because they didn’t know what else to do.
Is that worthy? Is that success? Or is it futility?
On the one hand, ongoing learning is honorable. On the other, we keep learning more and more stuff and not having much to show for it.
Is it the contents in our minds that are valuable, or the power we have to make something happen in the real world? Many of us have been led astray or forgotten which of these actually mattered.
No one wants to hear that their job should be made obsolete. No one wants to think that success is in finding a way to make your job unnecessary.
We want to hear that we are essential, that society needs us, that society would crumble without our involvement. But that simply is not the case.
We need doctors so badly, you may say. Sure, but isn’t that because we have neglected our health, to the point that we have outsourced its care rather than taken responsibility for it?
The most common “solutions” offered are medicines, which to some degree, act as poisons with their side effects.
We need teachers so badly, you may say. Sure, but isn’t that because we never taught students to think from the beginning? We led them to become reliant on digesting specific curriculums and memorizing them, only to forget most of it anyway. And the material they remembered would become obsolete in a few years.
The most common “solutions” offered are more degrees and more courses, often with no clear path toward careers. And for the ones that lead to careers, there is no guarantee that such careers will still exist in a few years.
When the “solutions” keep us reliant on needing more and more “solutions” from the same place, are they truly solutions?
I have no problem with doctors or teachers. I have merely used these as examples. I could have used any other profession.
For any career I can think of, the motivation of that job is to keep you locked in. There is never a true solution to any problem. It’s just a treadmill that keeps you running but staying in place at the end of the day.
Whether conscious and done purposely or not, it seems to be a consistent theme across most jobs. The client becomes an eternal source of revenue – always needing to come back for something more.
We never arrive at some desirable end point. There is just this empty feeling of needing more.
I don’t expect anyone to take today’s lesson seriously. I expect you to read this and continue about your job the same way you always have, and I can’t blame you for that either.
You are one piece of a much larger system. If you talk to your boss tomorrow and tell him: “I realized we’re just running our clients in circles here, and I think I know a way to get their problems fully resolved, so they never have to come back,” you’ll probably get fired on the spot.
There is no profit in true solutions.
We fear becoming obsolete the most, but perhaps it was what we needed all along.
Somewhere, in the Amazon rainforest, there was probably a panacea (cure-all) plant that would have cured everything. And it doesn’t matter because it would have made no profit for anyone. The only profit would have been to destroy the plant to avoid competitors, make it into a patentable drug, and then sell it at a high price.
This is where we are.
We are more interested in making people need us rather than truly offering something worthy. The most worthy thing to offer would be that which would make us no longer relevant or needed.
No one wants to hear this.
I don’t even want to say it because I know no one wants to hear it.
No one will hire me to give presentations at a Fortune 500 Company to tell them that they should make themselves obsolete. They would laugh at the idea that they should look for ways to dismantle their job positions and the company they work for.
Instead, they are focused on growth.
But the more a company grows, the more it shows they haven’t solved anything. They have learned to make others reliant on them, is all.
But if [Insert famous product here] is so great, why do we need more of it? Why does it never satisfy us? Why do I need to keep buying it or keep doing it to get that feeling?
Mind you, this is a feeling which is fleeting and illusory anyway.
If it were truly the best product, I think I could buy it once, and I would never need it again.
Those products don’t exist, of course. The products and services we have are the ones that keep us chasing our tails, coming back for more, like strung-out addicts.
The “solutions” we have are those that work for a few minutes, maybe an hour, maybe even a day, but not much more. In a recent post, I said: “The problem with solutions is that they are all temporary fixes. No problem has ever been permanently fixed.”
Our whole lives, nothing ever worked, but we think: “Maybe this new product or service will do the trick.”
I hope my books and Thoughts help someone somewhere, but I don’t want anyone to feel like they need me, my books, or my Thoughts.
My goal is not to keep you on the line, needing more.
Some of the “best” writers out there are actually the worst. If I read someone’s blog post, and it’s so great, why would I feel the need to read all their books and posts? If they were so great, I wouldn’t need to. If they were that good, I could read an article or two, get the message I needed, and never return to them again.
But that is exceedingly rare.
These days, I am writing everything I feel the need to so that it wouldn’t matter if I were to die. Even if I die, you can still access all that I thought was ever worth saying.
There isn’t this sense of “I must write 100 books or 1,000 articles.” That is irrelevant. The point is, did I say everything I needed to say, to the point that if lightning struck me dead one of these days, it wouldn’t matter?
Did I make myself obsolete? If so, then that was a success in my book.
Again: I don’t need you to need me. If you can click away from this site, and never return and be better for it, then I have succeeded.
Here is a quick example of how making oneself obsolete can lead to success:
A friend of mine had a Master or Guide in his life. He provided direction and words of wisdom regularly. One day, that Master decided to move on. My friend had often received good counsel and friendship and was saddened by his departure. But after this, my friend grew immeasurably. He started to realize that he did not need that Master at all. Rather than following or abiding by the lessons taught, he was paving his own way. In being left Masterless, he was now finding the Master within.
The Master, Guide, Parent, or Teacher who can leave and make you something better for it is the truly worthy one. Don’t misunderstand me to condone abandoning anyone. Only you can decide the point where it is better to walk away, or give space, or leave and never come back. But know whether you do this selfishly or selflessly.
Make yourself obsolete. Make it so that even if you vanished, the world would somehow become better for it.
We risk being made (or revealed to be) obsolete by the natural order of things every day. We might as well do it ourselves.
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